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“Curiosity is, in great and generous minds, the first passion and the last.”
— Samuel Johnson
Your go-to pre-date guide on how to make the best impression and ensure a memorable experience. Each question has been thoughtfully answered to provide clarity and confidence. Please take a moment to read through—it’s designed to help you navigate with ease and charm!
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Setting up a date with me is all too easy! Simply head over to my booking form and complete the questionnaire. Or send me an email introducing yourself (what you do for work, where you live, your age, favourite music, food etc…) the more I know about you the more likely you’ll be able to meet me!
Incomplete inquires will not get a response from me.
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Screening ensures my safety upon meeting new gentlemen such as yourself; when I feel safe, I feel my absolute sexiest — a win win situation if you ask me ;)
I will need a screenshot of your government photo ID (driver’s license, provincial or state ID, passport) and a link to your LinkedIn profile.
Don’t have a LinkedIn? Don’t worry! I will need a selfie from you instead and 2 references from providers with active social media accounts (X or Bluesky).
I do not meet clients who will not screen.
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Absolutely! Just like any service-oriented small business, I require a non refundable deposit. I ask for $100 for dates up to 3 hours, 15% for four hours and up. Deposit for overnights and FMTY is 50%. This is fully refundable if I have to cancel.
If you’ve passed my screening, I will send you an email with the deposit information. I understand life happens, and in the event of a cancellation I’m happy to keep your deposit to reschedule another date within 2 months.
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I would say so! In terms of hair and makeup, I would say I lean on the natural side. As for attire, I’m most comfortable in athlesure and “smart casual,” I like a polished yet relaxed look. However, if you have an event in mind that requires me to dress to the nines then don’t hesitate to let me know — I can also read between the lines.
Concerned about discretion? I get it —it goes both ways. I’m more than happy to curate a more private date, perhaps one of us cooks something delicious then go for stroll, or we can order in and cuddle up and watch a movie together.
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Yes I would! That said, you still need to follow my screening instructions.
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The thing that I find the most attractive in men and women is their ability to plan and provide. I love a person that can take the lead and plan a fun date for the both of us, especially if it includes food!
However, if you’re just overworked or have too many other obligations, I’m more than happy to take the reins!
I believe the best sort of intimacy comes after we’ve established a connection over a drink and some light eats — either at mine, yours, or a restaurant. You’ll notice that I’ll ask you a lot of questions, since I love getting to know the people I’m spending time with. I’m also incredibly curious and love learning, so I’ll happily listen to you while you yap about your passions, politics, or nerdy interests. Even if it’s a sports team I don’t know anything about!
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Oh I love most things physical 😉 Jokes aside, I love a good hike outside the city, visiting a good restaurant (I’m a big fan of steak houses and omakase but open to most things as long as it’s gluten free). Escape rooms and axe throwing are especially fun! But I also love the spa, and catching a musical or the ballet.
As a polyjam (someone who listens to an incredibly wide variety of music from different genres to languages) live music is my first love, so a concert date or even hitting up the Royal Conservatory of Music would light my heart on fire.
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Hygiene is one of those things that can make or break a date. I put a lot a lot of care into myself in that regard out of respect for other people, and I expect they do the same in return. I guarantee that you will have a great experience if you follow these guidelines!
Good hygiene includes: flossing, brushing, tongue scraper, mouthwash and showering (thoroughly) right before we meet. If you’re visiting me, I’ll always ask you to shower — I have all the necessary toiletries, but feel free to bring your own.
I reserve the right to cancel a date without refund if your hygiene is not up to standard.
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Like I mentioned previously, discretion is important for me. Unfortunately, I do not see clients younger than 21 years old and clients 75+.
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If you checked out my social media, you would probably have learned very quickly that I’m bi! I love women just as much as you do, maybe even more 😉 You may just find that I give your wife and/or girlfriend a little more attention than you. Sorry not sorry!
For couples, I do require an extra $100 on top of my regular rate. I also require that your partner is included in the booking process and sends me their screening info.
Remember, not all surprises are good surprises and this is definitely one of those things.
For solo women, I offer 30% off my rates (couples not included).
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Don’t you dare eyeroll at this cliche — but nerves are a normal part of the dating experience; wether you’re hiring a companion or meeting your Hinge date!
If this is your first time seeing a companion, then I’m here to tell you that I pride myself in helping people feel at ease. I’ve been often told that I exude warmth and personability. I’m certain I’ll have you feeling like we’ve known each other forever.
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I love gifts! They’re greatly appreciated but not necessary. I just love the thought of knowing you saw something that made you think about me!
You can bring me anything from a coffee, flowers or a vinyl you love (I have a little collection going). I’m also particularly fond of Lululemon and Pet Valu gift cards. If you need anymore ideas you’re welcome to check out my wishlist.
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A fun question! I certainly love talking about them — they come in such variety, after all. That said, I prefer to keep those conversations private and respectful. If you’re curious, feel free to bring it up over email, where two consenting adults can share preferences more discretely.
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You’re welcome to write a review only with my explicit consent beforehand. Although, I will ask you to avoid getting into too much detail. Gentlemen don’t kiss and tell 😉 Every date is unique and I cannot promise the exact same experience for all.
That said, I adore reading your happy-after- a-date email! It truly makes me feel all warm and fuzzy! <3
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Fun Fact: I have a small vinyl collection going and every single one I own was gifted to me! Feel free to buy me an album you think I’ll like, or one that you adore and that I also might love.
Florence and The Machine Dance Fever Live at Madison Square garden
Billie Holiday Sounds For Distingue Lovers
Nora Jones come away with me
Lana Del Rey Ultraviolence
Lana Del Rey Norman Fucking Rockwell
Lana Del Rey Honeymoon
Lana Del Rey Did You Know that There’s A Tunel Down In Ocean Boulevard
Beach House depression cherry
David Bowe The Rise And Fall Of Ziggy Stardust And The Spiders From Mars
The Weekend After Hours
Bon Iver forever ago
Cigarettes After Sex
Miles Davis Kind of Blue
Arctic Monkeys AM
yankee hotel foxtrot wilco
LCD Soundsystem This Is Happening
Harry Styles Harry’s House
Billie Eilish Happier Than Ever
Billie Eilish HIT ME HARD AND SOFT
Goose Dripfeild
Taktus Glass Houses For Marimba
Kaleo A/B
Arcade Fire WE
Metallica S&M
Metallica Master Of Puppets
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